Get What You Really Want-Right Now

Can you answer the question, “What do you really want?” How about its follow-up, “What would that give you?” And, most importantly, “What if you could have that now?”

A New Perspective on Fear

A low, gravelly voice said from behind, “Don’t be afraid.” How do we override the knee-jerk, fear-filled response to what we believe is coming to hurt us?

Surfing the Wave of Chaos

When a wave of chaos is poised to crash and take us under, we can flail about and hold our breath, or we can ride it. Ride the wave. Even if it takes you under. You’ll come out on top eventually. Remember to breathe when you have the opportunity.

Let it Rip-The Power of Unpolished


When I see people at their most vulnerable, I feel truly connected. We are all human. We cry. We love. We leap. We fall. We yearn. When was the last time you stepped out with nothing prepared to face what ranks as the number one fear-public speaking?

Taking Your Leap

When the time has come to leap, you may think you will have certainty. Not so. But there are things to anticipate that may give you clarity.

Before You Leap

When it’s time for a change, when a greater purpose is looming, you may feel split in two. It means you’re on the verge of making a leap. It means you are on the threshold of greater meaning and contribution and the beginning of a transformation that happens from the inside out.

The Tyranny of Should

When I introduce the concept of should-as in, I should write that article-the spark of an idea that had begun to blaze as I stoked it burned about as bright as a burnt out match. When believing I “could” write that article turned into I “should,” I no longer wanted to. Much like I feel about cleaning out my garage. It seems important and worthwhile but my procrastination mechanisms kick in and I find myself hanging out on Twitter and Facebook. Then I feel awful.

Top 10: May 2013

Matt Cunnelly

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[Video] Your Answer in the Midst of Chaos

Have you ever felt bombarded by a wave of frustration that leaves you at your wits end? In this video, Leadership Coach Diane Bolden demonstrates a method for accessing the solution you need to navigate through whatever is happening.

[Video] Bouncing Back: Hope for the Hopeless

Have you ever experienced a setback that left you feeling a little hopeless? Coach, author and speaker Diane Bolden explains how you can use it as a spring board to greater success and satisfaction.